Published on: 6/1/2014

10 Obvious Signs a Guy Is Flirting with You

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Obvious Signs a Guy Is Flirting with You

Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While its difficult to read body language at times, its possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.

1. Lovely smile

Lovely smile

A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, its one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, theres a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and dont try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often its a big turn off for guys.

2. Shy blush

Shy blush

Perhaps you know how its difficult to flirt with shy guys, but it doesnt mean that you should avoid such type of man. If you notice that a guy blushes around you, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying to flirt with you. However, not only do shy guys blush, any guy can actually blush when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we cant control and if he blushes around you, he certainly likes you.

3. Eye contact

Eye contact

This sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and we need to use this form of body language as often as we can. Depending on how long a man holds an eye contact with you, you can find out whether or not he likes you. If he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it might be a sign he is interested in you. We all make an eye contact when flirting, right? Its the same for guys. If a guy holds a short eye contact, he might also flirt with you, he is just a bit shy.

4. Mirroring


Sometimes men mirror womans actions without even knowing it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with you. This ranges from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, its natural for us to mirror something we love. Besides, a lot of singles dating websites advise guys to use mirroring technique when flirting with girls, maybe your crush does this too.

5. Hands on hips

Hands on hips

If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. This way, he is trying to show you he is a confident man and simply true macho. I personally dont like when guys use this way while flirting with girls, but still its one of the signs he is flirting with you.

6. A flirting touch

A flirting touch

If your crush touches you, its definitely a sign he likes you. But, when a guy touches you accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means the guy is trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue conversation with you. Do you like that guy? If yes, flirt back! Most girls ignore this important sign, but you shouldnt do it. After all, he might be your hubby!

7. Head Tilts

Head Tilts

The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes you. If he tilts the head towards you, this means hes listening attentively to each word you say. This also means hes really attuned to what you are talking about and hes really interested in conversation with you. I love that amazing feeling when a man is listening to me. I always appreciate it, even if Im not interested in that man.

8. Dilated pupils

Dilated pupils

Sometimes our eyes give us away when we dont want them to. When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When we dont like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the eyes of the guy keep dilating, its one of the most obvious signs he adores you and is highly interested in you.

9. Raised eyebrows

Raised eyebrows

You crush may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while youre talking, this is definite sign he is flirting with you. Watch for it and youll surely see it!

10. Fidgeting


Do you fidget when you are around the guy you like? Im pretty sure you do and its okay. You are just nervous and its actually a good nervous. Its all about expectation since you dont know whether or not he is interested in you. If you see him fidgeting, this is because hes interested in you and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with you.

Now that youre aware of the signs he is flirting with you, what are you waiting for? Start flirting back and maybe you will have a nice date tonight. Do you know any other signs of flirting that I should have added to this list?

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